I’ve seen many beautiful relationships and even marriages go bad. It isn’t that the couples didn’t love themselves in the first place, but one or both partners put up certain habits that made the relationship toxic.
These are some of the ways you ruin your beautiful relationship.
1. YOU ARE TOO SERIOUS
You ruin your relationship when you get angry too easily, get slighted by little things, you can’t take a joke and you fail to build happy moments with your partner.
If you are this kind of partner, you’d gradually ruin the beautiful relationship you have.
2. YOU START TAKING YOUR PARTNER FOR GRANTED
This is a major reason why beautiful relationships die; when you become so used to your partner’s love, you could start taking them for granted and nonchalance could as well step in.
3. YOU NEGLECT YOUR OWN APPEARANCE
It’s important you maintain the attraction ongoing in your relationship. You make your partner attracted to you more when you take care of your appearance, but when you neglect your appearance, the attraction could fade gradually.
4. YOU PUT OTHER PEOPLE AHEAD OF YOUR PARTNER
You bring so many negative tendencies to your relationship when you put other people ahead of your partner; jealousy, competition, negative thoughts and insecurities, to name a few.
5. INSECURITIES
If you are insecure about yourself, you make it harder for someone to love you and have a beautiful relationship with you. Even when they do, your insecurities would either push them away or create unnecessary problems.
6. YOU FOCUS ON THE NEGATIVE
When your partner does 7 good things and 1 or 2 not-so-good things, you ought to have that forgiving nature or let things slide (that’s if it is something trivial). However, when you focus on those negative things your partner always does and fail to appreciate the right things your partner do, you’ll bring unhappiness and unrest to the relationship.
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