Sometimes, it is not just about what you do in the bedroom, but how
you do it. Sure, you might be well versed on the perfect $ex positions,
but they will do no help if you do not understand what kind of $ex will
blow her away.
Here are three top ones.
1. Spontaneous $ex
Remember, women love to feel $exually wanted and desired by their
partners — and nothing says desire like spur-of-the-moment $ex on the
living room stairs. Unplanned, spontaneous love-making increases the
lust factor by showing your partner that your attraction for her trumps
everything else. Turn her on by telling her you need to have her right
there and then, no matter the time or the place. And depending where you
decide to get busy, the possibility of getting caught can also bring
added excitement. In fact, a study published in the
Journal of $exual Medicine reported that having $ex in public is one of the top fantasies among women.
2. Rough $ex
Most women, every now and then, want to be $exually dominated by
their partner. It appeals (once again) to her need to be $exually
desired — so desired he can’t help but ravish her (with her permission,
of course). Engaging in a little power play can be a fun and
exhilarating way to explore kink in the bedroom. First and foremost,
make sure she
wants to play rough, and outline boundaries to ensure that you
both feel
safe. Then, pull a little hair, do a little spanking, and even bust out
the blindfold and handcuffs if you’re feeling adventurous. Revel in the
pure lust this type of $ex is driven by, indulge in animalistic
passion, and go ahead…get a little loud.
3. Sensual $ex
This the type of $ex that most men already assume women want.
Candles, a relaxing bubble bath, full body massage, mood music in the
background — it’s the stuff of a Danielle Steele novel. Start by
clearing both your schedules, set a $exy environment, and let her know
you’ve got
all night to focus on her pleasure. Shut off your
cell phones, turn off the TV, and anything else that will distract you
from reaching new levels of intimacy with your lady. Remember
that foreplay is the bread and butter when engaging in a night of
sensual $ex. So take your time, go slowly, and explore all of the
erogenous zones on her body that so often go neglected in the bedroom.
Be passionate and engaged, and don’t be afraid to tease her a little.